Getting Along with the Neighbo...

Community association living often means lots of people living in close proximity.  Sometimes, in such a situation, dealing with others can lead to conflict.  Communication is often the bet way to prevent and resolve conflict before it reaches the legal system.  you don't have to be friends or spend time together to achieve peaceful coexistence, but you should try to be a good neighbor by following these tips:

• Say "hello".  At the mailbox, while walking the dog, or when you see a moving van arrive, introduce yourself.  Learn your neighbors' names.
• Give a "heads-up".  If you're planning a construction project, a party, or altering the appearance of your home, notify your neighbors beforehand.
• Do unto others.   Treat neighbors as you would like to be treated.  Be considerate about making noise.
• Know your differences.  make an effort to understand the other person.  Differences in age, ethnic background and years in the neighborhood can lead to different expectations or misunderstandings.
• Consider the view.  keep your property looking good.
• Appreciate the neighbors.  If the neighbors do something you like, let them know.  They'll be pleased you noticed, and it'll be easier to talk later if they do something you dislike.
• Stay positive.  Most people don't try to create problems.  If a neighbor does something that irritates you, don't assume it was deliberate.
• Talk honestly.  Tolerance is important, but don't let a real irritation go unchallenged because you want to avoid a conflict.  Let your neighbors what annoys you.
• Be respectful.  talk directly to your neighbors if there's a problem.  Gossiping with others can damage relationships and create trouble.
• Remain calm.  If a neighbor mentions a problem they have with you, thank them for the feedback.  You don't have to agree or justify your actions.  Wait to respond until after strong emotions have subsided.
• Listen.  When discussing a problem, try to understand your neighbor's point of view and feelings. Take your time.  Take a break to think about what you and your neighbor have discussed.  Arrange to finish the conversation later.